July 9, 2009
Gulu, Uganda
It's funny how, when you hear the name of a town, it means nothing at all until you go there – then it encompasses images, emotions, thoughts, and experiences. When I heard we were going to Kitgum I had no idea what to expect. I knew it was in the very northern part of Uganda and, therefor, had been profoundly affected by Kony's 20-year war. I also knew that it was very close to the border of Sudan, which means that it is extremely vulnerable to any future attacks by the LRA, which is believed to be hiding in the Sudan. As a result, Kitgum is unbelievably poor, unstable, and almost entirely rejected by the rest of Uganda. In fact, most Ugandans consider Gulu to be “the north”, though Kitgum sits above it. Most Ugandans also questioned our decision to go there, saying that it was too dangerous. But we did, and though it was a really difficult couple of days, I'm glad we did.
Before leaving Kampala, we picked up a man (who I will call Tom for safety reasons), who was to
We arrived at our guest house (similar to a bed and breakfast or hostel), hot, tired, and dirty
We pulled up to a bar that apparently doubled as a hotel, where Alessandro and the man went in. The rest of us (3 girls and 1 guy) waited across the street with our luggage. It didn't take long before a beggar woman approached us and tried to simply roll our luggage away. While managing that situation, it became clear that crowds were forming around us, and slowly moving in. Just as we were about to notify Alessandro that we didn't feel comfortable staying there any longer, he stormed out of the hotel and told us to get on the van (which had just pulled back up). Safely aboard, Alessandro told us that the “hotel” was actually a brothel, and that for some reason the man and the brothel manager were insisting that we separate and stay in single rooms. Alessandro determined that we would be better off staying on the floor of the first guest house, which is what we ended up doing. For the rest of the night, Tom kept trying to convince us girls to go to the “disco” with him. There was no way in hell that was happening, not only because we doubted there even was a disco in Kitgum, but because something about Tom made all of us women uncomfortable. Between our intuition, and the inappropriate comments and gestures he would make to us, we were fairly certain that Tom was not to be trusted.
So, after the shock and fear of the entire situation wore off, I began to realize just how close I might have been to becoming a victim of trafficking. In hindsight, it was Tom, a mere acquaintance of our guide, who insisted that she bring our group of Americans to Kitgum for a night, though we had been told it was not safe. It turns out that the rooms that were taken from us were actually occupied by Tom's friends, resulting in his insistance that the group split up. Half of us were then taken to a brothel, and told that we would have to each stay alone in a room. When we refused, he still tried persistently to get us females to go out with him that evening. Somehow, the next day, Tom disappeared without saying goodbye.
We went to the Embassy today and told them what happened. The Director of the Human Trafficking unit vowed she would follow up on it today as it really concerned her. The irony of the situation is not lost on me. We are here to learn about human trafficking, and may have been close to it ourselves. Not only that, but despite my heightened awareness and sensitivity to the process and risks, I didn't even realize what was happening until after-the-fact. I really cannot believe that it could have happened to me that easily. Had we just walked into that brothel with Alessandro, my whole life might have changed. I somehow thought that I was safe from it. But the truth is that none of us are. If I am vulnerable to predators like that, how much worse is it for women who have no protection, and no options? I praise God for protecting me. I may be completely off about my suspicions, but either way the reality of just how easy it would be to fall victim is indisputable. If I'm not immune, then who is? I am more convinced than ever that this problem of trafficking and exploitation deserves everyone's attention. It doesn't matter if you are a humanitarian or not, wealthy American or poor villager – this is all of our problem. Don't wait for it to affect you personally to pay attention.
5 comments:
Wow. Since I couldn't go on the Uganda trip, I'm living vicariously through you - thanks for blogging! I'm excited to read about the rest of your trip!
Hi Angel, You and your team are in my prayers. You are a pioneer of social and cultural sustainability...Keep up the very important work!
Lots of love, Daniel
P.S. Maybe avoid "Tom" for the rest of your trip...
P.P.S. One of the graphic designers here at Saatchi just passed by and said how visually appealing your blog is. Calming and inviting. When I told him of the content he said that it was just the juxtaposition that is needed. Then I told him about how amazingly calming you are in person. Fitting all around. Let me know if I can help with anything. I'm out...I've officially over-commented on your blog ;)
Wow! That is amazing and intense!
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